I Studied 64 Retired Millionaires So You Don’t Have To — These 12 Habits Will Reshape Your Retirement

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By Chloe Jackson

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Retirement can look secure on paper and still feel uncertain in real life. A strong nest egg does not automatically tell you how much to spend, where to cut back, how to invest, or which financial decisions deserve the most attention.

That uncertainty can lead to two costly extremes. Some retirees spend too freely and weaken their long-term security, while others become so cautious that they barely enjoy the money they spent decades building.

The better approach is to follow simple habits that protect wealth while supporting a comfortable life. These 12 retirement habits can help you spend smarter, stay flexible, and make your savings work with purpose.

Habit 1: They Know What Their Lifestyle Actually Costs

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Financially secure retirement starts with a spending number, not an investment balance. A person with $2 million who needs $140,000 every year faces a very different situation from someone with the same assets who comfortably lives on $60,000.

Robert’s useful starting point would therefore be his bank statements, credit cards, insurance bills, property costs, travel spending, and other actual expenses. A retirement budget based on real transactions is much more useful than a percentage pulled from a general rule.

BLS reported that the average U.S. consumer unit spent $78,535 in 2024, although that figure includes households of many ages and income levels and should not be treated as a retirement target. Housing remained the largest broad expense category.

A practical budget can use three groups:

  • Expenses you must pay.
  • Expenses that matter greatly to your quality of life.
  • Expenses you would reduce if markets or income changed.

That last category gives a retirement plan room to breathe.

Habit 2: They Keep Big Fixed Expenses From Taking Over

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Skipping coffee will not fix a retirement budget dominated by an expensive house, several vehicles, high insurance bills, or large loan payments. Financial flexibility usually comes from keeping major recurring obligations manageable.

Across all U.S. consumer units in 2024, housing accounted for 33.4 percent of spending and transportation for 17 percent. Those figures are not retiree-specific targets, but they show how much money can be tied up in a few large categories.

ExpenseUsually Flexible?Question to Ask
HousingLow to mediumDoes this home still fit how you live?
Vehicle costsMediumDo you still need every vehicle?
InsuranceMediumHave you reviewed coverage and premiums?
TravelHighCould dates or trip frequency change?
Dining and entertainmentHighWhich spending adds the most enjoyment?
Debt paymentsLow until debt changesIs the payment reducing flexibility?

This does not mean Robert should automatically sell his home or stop traveling. It means large recurring expenses deserve more attention than small purchases simply because they can have a much bigger effect on monthly cash flow.

AARP similarly advises retirees to periodically reconsider expenses that may have made sense during working years but no longer provide the same value after retirement.

Habit 3: They Keep Spending Money Separate From Long-Term Money

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A retirement portfolio has two jobs. It must help pay for life now while also supporting years that may still be decades away.

One way retirees handle those competing needs is to maintain some accessible money for near-term spending while leaving longer-term investments invested. Vanguard describes a bucket approach in which money is divided according to when it may be needed, with near-term expenses held more conservatively and longer-term assets left invested.

The correct amount of cash is personal. Holding too little can force you to sell investments at a bad time, while holding too much for years can reduce the portfolio’s opportunity to grow.

Robert would therefore avoid choosing an arbitrary cash number. He would start with upcoming expenses, reliable income sources, emergency needs, and how comfortable he is with market swings.

The habit is separation, not hoarding cash.

Habit 4: They Use a Withdrawal System Instead of Taking Money Randomly

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Retirement withdrawals can become surprisingly irregular. Vanguard research covering retirees found wide variation in withdrawal behavior, with some people taking nothing in certain years and much larger amounts in others.

A planned system does not guarantee that money will last. It does, however, give you rules for deciding when and how much to withdraw.

Vanguard discusses several approaches to turning savings into retirement income.

Withdrawal ApproachHow It WorksMain StrengthMain Tradeoff
Bucket approachMoney is divided by near and later needsNear-term spending is easier to seeToo much cash can reduce growth
Dollar plus inflationStart with an amount and raise it with inflationPredictable spendingMay ignore market conditions
Percentage of portfolioWithdraw a set percentage each yearSpending adjusts with portfolio valueIncome can vary considerably
Flexible or dynamicSpending has upper and lower limitsCan respond to marketsRequires annual decisions

None is automatically right for every retiree.

The better habit is to decide how withdrawals will work before a large expense or market decline forces the decision.

Habit 5: They Stay Diversified Instead of Betting Retirement on One Idea

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Someone can become wealthy through one company, business, property, or investment. Remaining heavily dependent on one asset after retirement creates a different question.

How much of your future should depend on one outcome?

The SEC explains that diversification means spreading money across different investments to reduce overall portfolio risk. It does not prevent losses, but it can reduce the damage caused when one investment or market area performs badly.

That matters more once a portfolio must help pay living expenses. A major decline early in retirement can be harder to absorb when money is also leaving the account.

Robert would periodically ask whether one stock, sector, business, property, or asset has become an unusually large part of his financial life.

Changing investments can create taxes and other consequences, so major changes deserve careful review. The important habit is awareness rather than constant trading.

Habit 6: They Treat Investment Fees Like Any Other Recurring Bill

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A 1 percent fee rarely feels dramatic when viewed as a line on an annual statement. Over many years, however, investment expenses reduce the amount of money left in the portfolio to earn future returns.

The SEC warns that even relatively small differences in investment costs can create substantial differences in long-term portfolio values.

Robert would want to know what he is paying for:

  • Fund expense ratios
  • Advisory or management fees
  • Trading charges
  • Account fees
  • Insurance or investment-product costs

Low cost is not automatically better if two products provide very different services. The point is to understand what you pay and what you receive in return.

A retirement portfolio should not contain expenses that remain simply because nobody has reviewed them in years.

Habit 7: They Respect Debt Even When They Can Afford the Payments

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Being able to make a payment does not make the payment harmless.

Debt creates a required monthly claim on retirement income. That can reduce flexibility when markets fall, inflation raises expenses, or another major cost appears.

Federal Reserve data show that debt remains common among U.S. households. In the 2022 Survey of Consumer Finances, about 42 percent of families had debt secured by their primary residence, while about 45 percent reported a credit card balance after their last payment.

This does not mean retirees should automatically pay off every mortgage. A low-rate mortgage, cash needs, taxes, and investment considerations can all affect that decision.

Robert would instead separate manageable strategic debt from expensive or unnecessary debt. High interest revolving balances deserve special attention because interest can consume money that could otherwise support retirement.

The goal is flexibility, not a perfect debt-free label.

Habit 8: They Make Social Security Timing a Deliberate Decision

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Having substantial savings does not make Social Security irrelevant. For many retirees, it is a lifetime income source that deserves its own claiming decision.

The Social Security Administration says retirement benefits increase for each month claiming is delayed beyond full retirement age, with the increase stopping at age 70.

For people born in 1960 or later, full retirement age is 67, and claiming at 70 results in a benefit equal to 124 percent of the full retirement benefit before later cost-of-living adjustments.

Delaying is not automatically the correct choice. Cash needs, expected longevity, marital circumstances, work, taxes, and other income can affect the decision.

Robert’s habit would simply be to compare choices before filing.

Social Security claiming is difficult to reverse completely once time passes. It deserves more thought than choosing a date simply because a birthday arrived.

Habit 9: They Think About Taxes Before Money Leaves an Account

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A dollar inside a traditional retirement account, a Roth account, and a regular investment account may have different tax consequences when withdrawn.

That makes withdrawal order important.

The IRS says required minimum distributions apply to many traditional retirement accounts. Many current retirees begin RMDs at age 73, although rules depend on birth year, account type, employment status, and other circumstances. Roth IRAs do not require lifetime RMDs for the original account owner.

Robert would not wait until late December to discover that a distribution was required or that a large withdrawal changed his tax situation.

Instead, he would review retirement accounts during the year and consider whether upcoming distributions could affect taxes, Medicare premiums, charitable giving, or cash needs.

Tax rules are personal and can change. This is one area where a qualified tax professional can be useful, especially when several account types are involved.

Habit 10: They Treat Health Costs as a Permanent Budget Category

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Medicare is valuable coverage, but it does not make health care free.

For 2026, the standard Medicare Part B premium is $202.90 per month, with higher premiums applying to some higher-income beneficiaries. The 2026 Part B deductible is $283.

Those figures represent only part of possible health spending. Prescription coverage, supplemental coverage, dental care, hearing care, vision services, copayments, and services outside Medicare coverage can add more.

Robert would therefore keep health costs in his regular retirement budget rather than treating them only as emergencies.

He would also treat physical ability as part of retirement independence. CDC guidance for adults 65 and older recommends a weekly mix of aerobic activity, muscle-strengthening activity, and balance work, adjusted for a person’s abilities and health circumstances.

Money helps retirement, but being able to use your time matters too.

Habit 11: They Spend Money to Support the Life They Actually Want

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Saving can become such a strong habit that some retirees struggle to switch from accumulation to spending.

Vanguard notes that well-off retired investors may spend surprisingly little of their retirement savings, sometimes because they remain uncertain about what is safe to spend.

That creates a strange retirement problem. Someone may have enough money yet still treat every restaurant meal, trip, class, hobby, or family visit as a threat to financial security.

Robert would solve this by giving enjoyable spending its own place in the plan.

That might include travel, hobbies, grandchildren, home projects, classes, volunteering, or regular time with friends. The specific choice matters less than deciding what the money is meant to support.

The National Institute on Aging also notes that meaningful activities and social engagement can support well-being in later life. Staying involved with friends, family, neighbors, volunteer work, and enjoyable activities can help reduce isolation and maintain a sense of purpose.

A retirement plan should protect the future without sacrificing every good part of the present.

Habit 12: They Protect Their Decision-Making System

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Growing wealth creates another risk: more money for scammers to target.

The Federal Trade Commission reported that fraud losses reported by adults age 60 and older rose from about $600 million in 2020 to $2.4 billion in 2024. Large individual losses played a major role, particularly in investment, romance, and impersonation scams.

At a May 2026 FTC event, the agency said adults 60 and older had reported more than $3 billion in fraud losses during 2025.

Robert’s protection system would not depend on believing he is too smart to be scammed.

It could include account alerts, strong passwords, two-step security, a trusted contact at financial institutions, organized account records, and a personal rule against sending large amounts of money after an unexpected phone call, email, text, or online message.

The CFPB specifically encourages older adults to consider trusted contacts and advance planning as part of protection against financial exploitation.

Simplifying scattered accounts can also make unusual activity easier to notice.

A Simple Annual Retirement Review

Many of these habits can be handled during one organized review each year.

AreaWhat to ReviewQuestion to Ask
SpendingLast 12 monthsDid spending match the plan?
HousingTaxes, insurance, maintenanceDoes this home still fit retirement?
InvestmentsAllocation and concentrationHas risk changed?
FeesFunds, adviser and account costsWhat did I pay this year?
WithdrawalsAmount and methodIs my system still sustainable?
Social SecurityClaiming plan if not yet filedHave I compared my choices?
RMDsApplicable retirement accountsIs a distribution required?
MedicareCoverage and expected costsDoes current coverage still fit?
BeneficiariesRetirement and financial accountsAre designations current?
Fraud safeguardsAlerts and trusted contactsCould someone stop a suspicious transfer?
LifestyleTravel, friends, hobbies, purposeAm I actually using retirement well?

A yearly review works because retirement changes slowly until suddenly it does not. A move, a death in the family, a market decline, a new expense, or a change in priorities can alter a plan that worked perfectly a year earlier.

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